How can we end the controversy over self-indentified transgender individuals worldwide?

Dear critical-reader, how best can humankind end the daft cultural wars being waged so ferociously, globally, by mostly hypocritical extremists, on both the far right and far left?

To begin with, it ought to be noted that by definition, compromise, is a dirty word,  for extremists across the political spectrum on both the right and left,  on many issues, worldwide.

Furthermore, it is also a truism, dear critical-reader,  that the  yearning for freedom beats strongly in the hearts of all humans,  regardless of religious faith,  race and social  background, in every nation on the surface of sovereign national  territorial landmasses, and those of  islands in all the oceans surrounding the seven continents that make up humankind's common home,  our egregiously-trashed biosphere (that we risk ending up making uninhabitable and becoming an extinct species eventually - if we aren't more sensible about preserving the natural world's biodiversity hotspots, incidentally).

As serious and committed  libetarians,  who disapprove of the illiberalism of extremists, on the right and left, globally, who are purveyors of nanny-state do-as you-are-told, not-as-we-do  policies, which create fear and division amongst targeted demographics worldwide, why do we not find a commonsensical middle-ground solution, for those who seek to be free, to live the way they want, without offending or victimising others, by self-identifying as transgender individuals, for example?

Perhaps, dear critical-reader, by simply allowing individuals conceived and birthed  as biological females, who, when they  reach the age of majority,  then self-identify as transgender males, to use only female facilities in public spaces,  and compete with only females in all sports competitions they participate in, we might finally find a commonsensical  concensus-building  strategy to help us make some headway towards ending that particular thorny cultural wars  social controversy?

Ditto achieve the same end, by also asking those conceived and birthed as biological males, who then, when they  reach the age of majority,  self-identify as transgender females, to also use male only facilities in public spaces,  and compete with only males, in all sports competitions they participate in, by passing legislation to bedrock that worldwide? Surely, that might help end the daft cultural wars, now being waged so ferociously, by mostly hypocritical extremists, on both the far right and far left, worldwide? No?

Post Script:

It also occurs to one that the wealthy Global North  nations trying to protect the rights of LGBTQ1+ demographics across Africa, who publicy threaten governments in the continent that pass legislation to criminalise aspects of same sex relationships, ought to stop making such unhelpful culturally inappropriate public threats -  and rather focus on quietly funnelling all cancelled  aid money directly instead to helping empower LGBTGQ+ individuals and communities (as well as those who dare to speak out publicly, to demand that the human rights of LGBTQ1+ individuals and communities,  
ought to be respected and protected), to bootstrap their own way to financial independence, by funding livelihood training initiatives,  and funding innovative and potentially profitable impactful start-ups, for those unfairly oppressed Africans.

After all, is wealth not as well respected in all of Africa, as it is in the rest of the world,  and thus can help mak sure that its demographics' cohorts (including LGBTQI+ denigraohics) of wealthy individuals,  are also  allowed  to be themselves, regardless, peacefully, lol, one asks? A word to the wise...